Ask for Kim to step away while you discuss the pale.

Good idea. Just ask him. He won't make a scene.

Yeah, you still aren't over the fear that something bad might happen. He expressly said you've had enough excitement for today.

...is what you want to do. But should you? He expressly stated you shouldn't hear about it. What if it renders you mad? Or catatonic? Or makes you lose your memory again?